People who own their own businesses radiate confidence, wealth, and just can't hide their free spirits. They don't punch a clock and don't answer to anyone but themselves. We see them behind the wheels of their fancy cars and living in those big houses and think: "sure, he can afford those things-he owns his own business" and business must be booming.
We are absolutely comfortable explaining somebody's successes by this "having his own business"-thing, and, yet, the idea of becoming one of this people terrifies us like nothing else.
Think that isn't true? Ask some of your friends to go into business with you as partners-but be prepared to hear all of the excuses why they can't. And be prepared to hear them tell you exactly why your business is going to fall on its face even though they have no experience running a business and probably don't even know anybody who does.
Why do we constantly shoot ourselves in the foot? Why are we more likely to scare ourselves into submission than to try anything new? Have we been conditioned to fail?
There are a couple of aspects to the problem.
The entire concept behind the Prussian System-our system of education-is to make reliable employees out of everyone.
All through our school years, even up through university, we are taught to be upright citizens within society, to conform and find a job, waste the next four or five decades toiling away for a boss who doesn't really care about us. The only thing we're working for is a retirement that will allow us simply exist without bumming money from our loved ones.
We are taught that the only way available to us to express ourselves is to become somebody else's worker, to be dependent on somebody and to be reworded in life for satisfying somebody else.
When we feel caged in, we've learned to pacify ourselves with the tidbits of praise that our superiors dole out to us. We are trained to ignore our own dignity.
Do you ever wonder what happened to all of those crazy dreams you had when you were little? Did you ever dream about being a filing clerk, a corporate accountant, or your boss's lackey? I doubt it. You wanted to be a race car driver or maybe a pilot, didn't you?
Because in school and college you were explained that, it's impractical, you need to make money and provide for your family, and you need something real, like to become an engineer or an accountant.
And when we do find ourselves stuck in a job we don't like, we see our only option is to endure the endless days and boredom while grumbling under our breath or to our fellow co-workers around the water cooler. Do you want your children to follow in those footsteps?
It's the sort of behavior we learned from our parents and it's the behavior you'll be passing on to your kids and your grandchildren if you don't find the courage to put a stop to the cycle and turn your future around.
If you want to take control of your future and be able to live the life you've always wanted, the first step is becoming your own boss.
It so scary! Mainly because it's something new, something you've never done before.
Especially in an Internet based business with all of the rumors and controversy and hearsay swirling around it.
That's where we retreat into our own little "comfort zones."
How do we learn anything?
Repetition, that's the key. When you were young and just learning to write the only way you learned to do so was through doing the same thing over and over again until you became good at it and you didn't even have to think about what you were doing.
That's the same way you learned to talk, to read, to play, and even to make money.
Through repetition you become who you are as well.
Maybe the only thing that gets you through your day is thinking that the position you are in now is only temporary. You drag yourself to work early in the morning, smile and make jokes with a boss you don't respect and don't really care for, you listen to your co-workers as they gripe about the same things that keep you up at night, all the time dreaming of that big break you're going to get a little ways down the road.
Time passes unnoticed and one day you wake up to find that you've become just another accountant, or just another engineer, or just another clerk. You even drive the same car, dress the same way, eat the same things, and frequent the same bars, clubs, and vacation spots as other people that share your vocation. You've become a caricature, a parody.
Learning through repetition has led you down the path to become who you are and has made everything in your life fall into one of two categories: familiar and unfamiliar.
The former will feel comfortable and friendly, and the latter will cause your brain to give you a burst of adrenalin, letting you know that you are stepping out of your comfort zone.
A minuscule amount of this substance will dictate your actions, the decisions you make and ultimately your destiny!
"It's in the moment of making a decision when the destiny is formed!"-said Tony Robbins.
It is that feeling of discomfort that comes from doing anything new that will keep you from stepping out of your routine and toward the life you really want to live.
Your friends and family will gladly help you with this task!
Want to hear a strange statistic? A person's income is almost always the average of the incomes of their seven closest friends. That means that people don't generally hang out with people who make significantly less, or significantly more than they themselves do.
This means that you can't really go to a friend and ask advice about how to make a six figure salary-not unless your friend already does. They just won't know how to answer you and will most often reply that "it can't be done" or will tell you to get your head out of the clouds.
The worst part is you'll take their opinion as fact, more often than not, because it represents the path of least resistance-it's much easier to keep doing what you are doing than to succeed at anything new.
"People are having hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of fear of the unknown they prefer suffering that is familiar." Thich Nhat Hanh wrote these words hundreds of years ago. Did he write it about you?
If you're truly contemplating what Global Resorts Network can do for you then you've probably done a lot of research, learned a little bit about Internet marketing and read or watched a ton of testimonials from people who have come before you but you're probably still worrying about all of the what-ifs. What if I can't get my business off the ground? What if something goes wrong? What if I lose money? What if I can never succeed?
Here is a story for you.
When I just started practicing Tae Kwon Do, before my first tournament, (I was in the orange belt rank back then) I went to talk to my coach and I said: "Master Shilkaitis (that was his name), I think I might want to participate in sparring, but I still feel that I'm not ready yet and I'm not good enough." And he said: "You will never feel that you are absolutely 100% ready! It's just the matter of finding strength and desire to win and overcoming your fear! Plus without actually sparring with somebody you will never know how good you are!"
I took a third place for a spectacular knock-out with a round house kickto the head. It doesn't happen even in the black belt category every day. I was so frightened, that I still don't remember how it happened!
I could go on and on with all the explanations and motivational speeches, but you know the concept already: it's a decision that you have to make consciously!
Nothing changes without you making a decision to change it.
Change your life today!
You'll be scared and there will be bumps in the road but you'll never know just how high you can truly fly unless you get off the ground.
To get everything you deserve you have to change the way you are doing things. Make the decision today and choose your destiny.
If you do, maybe next time you hear someone say "sure, he can afford those things-he owns his own business," they'll be a talking about you. - 15275
We are absolutely comfortable explaining somebody's successes by this "having his own business"-thing, and, yet, the idea of becoming one of this people terrifies us like nothing else.
Think that isn't true? Ask some of your friends to go into business with you as partners-but be prepared to hear all of the excuses why they can't. And be prepared to hear them tell you exactly why your business is going to fall on its face even though they have no experience running a business and probably don't even know anybody who does.
Why do we constantly shoot ourselves in the foot? Why are we more likely to scare ourselves into submission than to try anything new? Have we been conditioned to fail?
There are a couple of aspects to the problem.
The entire concept behind the Prussian System-our system of education-is to make reliable employees out of everyone.
All through our school years, even up through university, we are taught to be upright citizens within society, to conform and find a job, waste the next four or five decades toiling away for a boss who doesn't really care about us. The only thing we're working for is a retirement that will allow us simply exist without bumming money from our loved ones.
We are taught that the only way available to us to express ourselves is to become somebody else's worker, to be dependent on somebody and to be reworded in life for satisfying somebody else.
When we feel caged in, we've learned to pacify ourselves with the tidbits of praise that our superiors dole out to us. We are trained to ignore our own dignity.
Do you ever wonder what happened to all of those crazy dreams you had when you were little? Did you ever dream about being a filing clerk, a corporate accountant, or your boss's lackey? I doubt it. You wanted to be a race car driver or maybe a pilot, didn't you?
Because in school and college you were explained that, it's impractical, you need to make money and provide for your family, and you need something real, like to become an engineer or an accountant.
And when we do find ourselves stuck in a job we don't like, we see our only option is to endure the endless days and boredom while grumbling under our breath or to our fellow co-workers around the water cooler. Do you want your children to follow in those footsteps?
It's the sort of behavior we learned from our parents and it's the behavior you'll be passing on to your kids and your grandchildren if you don't find the courage to put a stop to the cycle and turn your future around.
If you want to take control of your future and be able to live the life you've always wanted, the first step is becoming your own boss.
It so scary! Mainly because it's something new, something you've never done before.
Especially in an Internet based business with all of the rumors and controversy and hearsay swirling around it.
That's where we retreat into our own little "comfort zones."
How do we learn anything?
Repetition, that's the key. When you were young and just learning to write the only way you learned to do so was through doing the same thing over and over again until you became good at it and you didn't even have to think about what you were doing.
That's the same way you learned to talk, to read, to play, and even to make money.
Through repetition you become who you are as well.
Maybe the only thing that gets you through your day is thinking that the position you are in now is only temporary. You drag yourself to work early in the morning, smile and make jokes with a boss you don't respect and don't really care for, you listen to your co-workers as they gripe about the same things that keep you up at night, all the time dreaming of that big break you're going to get a little ways down the road.
Time passes unnoticed and one day you wake up to find that you've become just another accountant, or just another engineer, or just another clerk. You even drive the same car, dress the same way, eat the same things, and frequent the same bars, clubs, and vacation spots as other people that share your vocation. You've become a caricature, a parody.
Learning through repetition has led you down the path to become who you are and has made everything in your life fall into one of two categories: familiar and unfamiliar.
The former will feel comfortable and friendly, and the latter will cause your brain to give you a burst of adrenalin, letting you know that you are stepping out of your comfort zone.
A minuscule amount of this substance will dictate your actions, the decisions you make and ultimately your destiny!
"It's in the moment of making a decision when the destiny is formed!"-said Tony Robbins.
It is that feeling of discomfort that comes from doing anything new that will keep you from stepping out of your routine and toward the life you really want to live.
Your friends and family will gladly help you with this task!
Want to hear a strange statistic? A person's income is almost always the average of the incomes of their seven closest friends. That means that people don't generally hang out with people who make significantly less, or significantly more than they themselves do.
This means that you can't really go to a friend and ask advice about how to make a six figure salary-not unless your friend already does. They just won't know how to answer you and will most often reply that "it can't be done" or will tell you to get your head out of the clouds.
The worst part is you'll take their opinion as fact, more often than not, because it represents the path of least resistance-it's much easier to keep doing what you are doing than to succeed at anything new.
"People are having hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of fear of the unknown they prefer suffering that is familiar." Thich Nhat Hanh wrote these words hundreds of years ago. Did he write it about you?
If you're truly contemplating what Global Resorts Network can do for you then you've probably done a lot of research, learned a little bit about Internet marketing and read or watched a ton of testimonials from people who have come before you but you're probably still worrying about all of the what-ifs. What if I can't get my business off the ground? What if something goes wrong? What if I lose money? What if I can never succeed?
Here is a story for you.
When I just started practicing Tae Kwon Do, before my first tournament, (I was in the orange belt rank back then) I went to talk to my coach and I said: "Master Shilkaitis (that was his name), I think I might want to participate in sparring, but I still feel that I'm not ready yet and I'm not good enough." And he said: "You will never feel that you are absolutely 100% ready! It's just the matter of finding strength and desire to win and overcoming your fear! Plus without actually sparring with somebody you will never know how good you are!"
I took a third place for a spectacular knock-out with a round house kickto the head. It doesn't happen even in the black belt category every day. I was so frightened, that I still don't remember how it happened!
I could go on and on with all the explanations and motivational speeches, but you know the concept already: it's a decision that you have to make consciously!
Nothing changes without you making a decision to change it.
Change your life today!
You'll be scared and there will be bumps in the road but you'll never know just how high you can truly fly unless you get off the ground.
To get everything you deserve you have to change the way you are doing things. Make the decision today and choose your destiny.
If you do, maybe next time you hear someone say "sure, he can afford those things-he owns his own business," they'll be a talking about you. - 15275
About the Author:
About the author: Pavel Becker is a frequent contributor of articles on the subjects of Web-Promotion and Home-Based Business. To find out how to earn money on-line go to his website PavelBecker.com